She often shoots with silicone-based lube because it can last a long time…so much so that it permanently stains sheets, which Pam chalks up to a production expense for making porn.
They proved this hypothesis correct.
Vanderlinde strongly advises taking your time if you're just starting out, and working your way up using smaller things like fingers and thin toys.
Foreign objects include a penis during anal intercourse or sex toys.
Some men behold anal sex as the holy grail and if they can just get their wives and girlfriends to partake then the floodgates so to speak about sex would open in general.
What you should NOT do
The fantasy of being caught in the moment and "sticking it in" may need to be tempered, as this results in some of the riskiest sex scenarios.
So if you stick a dry penis into a dry, tight orifice, that's going to be very painful, especially with more friction.
There were rumors in the late seventies of groups of men who engaged in so much anal activity that they actually lost control of bowel movements.